Deliberately Create Your Life Each Day!

“Fake it 'till you make it” - probably the phrase I dislike the most. Why? Because when you're fake, you're robbing everyone of the opportunity to get to know the real you. And it takes SO much effort to be fake.

So why not try something new? Why not take the approach of deliberately creating yourself each and every day as you make pivots and adjustments to live life on your terms? And this comes down to building your self confidence. Here are some examples of what I mean by this: 

Are you a perfectionist? Psych yourself up by giving yourself credit for all that you already do to your standards.

Judge yourself harshly? Ask yourself: what’s a kinder way to speak to myself to get me psyched up?

Compare yourself to others? Consider this: they could very well be looking back at you, wishing that have what you have.

Fear of making a mistake? Ask yourself: what’s the cost of me NOT taking action?

Don’t feel qualified? After assessing what this task requires, check in with the applicable skills you DO have and rely on them as you learn.

If this sounds simple. It is. It’s about consciously shifting your mindset in each moment. And, the more you practice, the better you’ll get. I promise! Want some help? Email Me.

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